[That sounds more like one being disguised as the other than both, but semantics are far less important than the clear pain Izunia is in.]

...It's never easy to discover you've been manipulated. Even when it hasn't cost you someone precious.

[And if there's anything Kurama can relate to, it's loving someone more than you are entirely equipped to handle. Revolving around them. His orbit around his mother has been forcefully destabilized and he's still struggling with that.]

I don't think there is any 'Even now' for some loves. They will always be, no matter how long, no matter what events may pass. You may adapt, you may change, but you will never just 'get over it'.