I don't expect it to be easy. I think I would be angry if it was.

And in some ways, you're a stranger to me, too. But you're one that I know is worth the effort - not because you're my brother, or at least not just because of that. But because I've seen the people who love you and I want to see what they see. The person underneath that's worth fighting for and calling family, whatever else he may have been.