... I can't say I know her or your bond with her all that well, but... if I may... You said something similar happened to that vision around your birthday, right? I think it's... worth considering that if she did take you out to dinner, then, she was volunteering her own time for that. Even if your bond is strained, I think... I think it might be a little stronger than you may think.

[Of course, that's just speculation on her part, but...]